I’ll admit that some things in life, we don’t get to choose. Sometimes things are out of our hands, but I am a strong believer that happiness can be a choice.
I actually have a wooden wall hanging up in my room which says, “choose kindness and laugh often.” Kindness is something in which I try to do as best as I can and that quote really stood out to me.
You have probably heard this a million times, but you honestly don’t know what people are going through. If you are reading this right now, there has probably been a time in your life in which people have not been too kind when you need that kindness the most- and it really does ‘suck.’
We are not all going to be saints, and it’s probably impossible for people to be kind all the time. We’re human, it’s realistically not going to happen. But sometimes random acts of kindness are the best acts of kindness. The kind that are unexpected, and arguably mean the most. Whether it’s as small as giving one pound to charity, or even holding the door open for someone, you cannot deny the fact that the world would be a much more positive place if people chose kindness more often.
I actually read something the other day, and it seemed to really stand out to me:
“Don’t cross oceans for people who wouldn’t cross a puddle for you.”
“No. Do it. Do cross oceans for people. Love people. All people. No conditions attached. No wondering whether or not they are worthy. Cross OCEANS, climb MOUNTAINS, life and love isn’t about what you GAIN. It’s more about what you GIVE.”
I don’t have the original link to the picture which I quoted this from, but it is so unbelievable true. Sometimes you have to be kind to people who may not be kind to you. I don’t mean in a ‘naive’ sort of way, but more for your own mindset. I would much rather be a person with kind intentions, than a person who only has kind intentions when they receive something in return.
And hey, it’s nearly Christmas. That means the time for giving, kindness, and pure happiness. Even a small act of kindness can make a big difference; whether that’s on one person’s life, or thousands of lives. Never forget that.
Love and happiness always,
xo, Becca
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This is so perfect! No matter the situation, I always choose kindness. Like you said even when there are ones that have not been so kind to you. My heart is peaceful when I choose kindness because I know it’s the right thing. Thank you so much for this post!
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Beautiful reminder! x
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Totally true. Happiness can be a choice. Beautiful post x
Terri
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You have a lovely way with words x
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So glad you posted this, I couldn’t wait! You write so beautifully ❤
Morgan
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i love doing random acts of kindness, making others happy is the way forward. loved this post x
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This post is so perfect absolutely loved it! These type of blog posts need to be done way more often as it’s such a littlest positive reminder to be happy at all times! Xx aysemervedemir.wordpress.com
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I loved reading this blog post, I think it’s really important to remember positivity in whatever you do x
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Do cross oceans… wonderful reminder! -Kim
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Everyone need a little reminder like this known again
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So sweet and uplifting. I agree. My mother has told me that the best thing you can do in life is love.
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Couldn’t agree more with this post! My favourite quote is ‘throw kindness round like confetti’ xx
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A lovely written post, I adore the way you write!
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This is so perfect. So true. Completely relate to this. the quote is absolutely perfect. it also made me think. It’s Christmas time so kindness really is important right now. Although it is all year long. xoxo Corinne from corinne & kirsty
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this is the type of attitude we all need to have going into 2017! the world would be a much better place if we all choose kindness 🙂
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This is such a lovely post! I agree that we should always be kind no matter what and not only when we know that we will get something in return 🙂
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I love this post and totally agree on it 100%.
So true and it’s sad that more people probably choose not to be kind when it’s so easy and nicer to be kind.
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This post is perfect throughout 2016 I’ve been trying to make myself a kinder person and I’m planning to do so even more in 2016 I can’t wait to read more of your posts in the future – http://www.teaisawishyourheartmakes.wordpress.com 💖
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I never understood people who are just outright rude for no reason. I understand not being perfect and happy all of the time, but I find that if I tell people that I’m not feeling the best, they’ll either help me get out of the situation or they’ll understand why I choose to remain quieter in hopes of not pushing my unhappy emotions onto them.
So this post makes me happy and kind of sad (because we really shouldn’t need the reminder, but some times we do.)
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I love this post!! And I love that quote. Do things for people even if they won’t do the same for you as you never know what others might be going through x
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This is so true, even the smallest act of kindness can make someone feel a whole lot happier as you don’t always know what they’re going through, even if they may not do the same for you.
Sharon x
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I tweeted a comment – only to say how lovely it is to start the new year thinking about the importance of being kind (to ourselves and others).
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So very true. Being kind to people is good for your soul and for that if others. I just wish this was something everyone lived by.
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What a lovely post, if we all chose kindness more often, we’d all be happier for it
Rachel // Rachel Ellen
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