Some things are meant to be

Here I go again, writing and thinking about the deepest of things. I’m an avid thinker about life. It seems like it’s the only thing that constantly roams around my brain. From the past, to the future. To people present in my life, to people who used to be in my life.

One philosophy that I live by is definitely the idea that ‘life works in weird and wonderful ways’ and that everything really does happen for a reason. I don’t believe we all have a set plan, it’s up to us to decide what we do with our lives without it being pre-determined, but that things happen for the positive sometimes.

If you have read my blog since I started blogging (wow that seems like yesterday but I’ve been blogging for over 6 months now???) you may have noticed that I don’t take people leaving my life very well. I have lost people who I loved dearly, whether that’s friends or otherwise. See where I’m going with this? Nevertheless, I take comfort in knowing that these setbacks can lead to bigger and better.

It’s a bit like relationships. If you don’t break up with someone, then you can’t progress and do better. Whatever happens next will make break-ups seem like a complete blessing. I actually read something interesting on this yesterday and it really stood out to me.

There are hundreds of boys out there who are so much better to the ex you had previously. Think about it, this world is full of billions of people. Billions of unique, amazing people. Give it time.

I decided to add in that little quote that I typed on my notes when I was thinking about this for anyone who may be struggling with a break-up in general. This idea helped me immensely get over someone, and I hope that you can find comfort in this too.

When it comes to friends, well. All I will say is that you are in control of your own life. Don’t settle for second best, and take comfort in the idea that life will end up working itself out in the end. Sometimes there’s a bigger reason as to why we need to cut out people of our lives- even if we don’t manage to see it at the time.

Another rambling post, but you guys seem to enjoy these kind of posts where there’s no organisation and my thoughts just pour out onto my keyboard.Some things really were just meant to happen.

Love and happiness always,

xo, Becca








24 thoughts on “Some things are meant to be

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  2. I love what you wrote here ‘life works in weird and wonderful ways’ and that everything really does happen for a reason. I don’t believe we all have a set plan, it’s up to us to decide what we do with our lives without it being pre-determined’ I love your posts and I definitely agree with you here. Amazing post x


  3. Great ramble, loved the quote and also the bit about not allowing yourself to settle for second best. It took me a long while of giving far more than I was getting back to realise I didn’t need to put myself through it. Now I have a smaller but much better group of friends that I know value me as much as I value them


  4. Great post 🙂 I think it takes some time to realise that some people weren’t good for you and it was the right decision to leave them behind… it’s hard but sometimes necessary I guess. xx


  5. This post is amazing! Really got me thinking. I don’t take people leaving either, i get extremely heartbroken more so then necessary


  6. You’re legit my twin 😂💖 I also got a problem in dealing with loss in friendships and people and things , honestly I’m just trying to get to a stage where I’m not so reliant on people. Love this post


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